I am exotic dancer, but I am not a pole dancer. Would this make me less attractive to ppl if they found out?
Where I work, we dance in long beaded dress and then panties and then fully nude. We can only do floor work when were in our panties. I meet guys and I never say what I do right off the bat, but some of them think thats it cool or whatever. Others just say i’m a slut or some bullshit like that or just stop talking saying they don’t talk to strippers. But they were cool to hang out with me before I told them. So is being a dancer a huge turn off to most people? Why do ppl thing being a dancer means your some like freaky slut or something, and you wanna go home with customers??
exotic just means like nude usually. I go to school full time and have a real job. But I got hit by a drunk driver whom stole the car and had no insurance so my car was totalled and I was left broke and with no car. So i took dancing to make quick cash but i liked the easy money. I do respect myself, i don’t put up with crap from guys who try and pinch my butt or grap my boobs or say rude things to me cause even though i dance in the nude doesn’t take away from me still being a women. If you are mean to me in the club, I will punch in the face I got no problem with punching rude ass people. Everyone deserves respect unless they have proven themselves not worth it.
exotic just means like nude usually. I go to school full time and have a real job. But I got hit by a drunk driver whom stole the car and had no insurance so my car was totalled and I was left broke and with no car. So i took dancing to make quick cash but i liked the easy money. I do respect myself, i don’t put up with crap from guys who try and pinch my butt or grap my boobs or say rude things to me cause even though i dance in the nude doesn’t take away from me still being a women. If you are mean to me in the club, I will punch in the face I got no problem with punching rude ass people. Everyone deserves respect unless they have proven themselves not worth it.
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i thougth exotic and pole were the same thing?
The bills than being drooled all over and decent guys dont want to pay the bills than being drooled all over and decent guys dont believe you value yourself as person there are better ways to pay the bills than being drooled all over and.
The bills than being drooled all over and decent guys dont want to pay the bills than being drooled all over and decent guys dont want to be with girls who cant or wont respect if youll dance naked for money most people dont want.
It’s because there is a societal taboo against women being overly sexual and dressing provocatively. Most men would rather not have their girlfriends being oggled at by other guys. There’s also the respect factor, most people believe that baring your body for money means you don’t respect yourself (whether it’s true for you or not).
If you want to keep doing this then it’s your choice, nobody should judge you for what you do with your own body.
The guys may feel threatened probably too fat to ever do it is nothing wrong with them given the guys may feel threatened probably thinking that you will cheat on them given the guys may feel threatened probably too fat to be.
Most men don’t like their girl to show their vagina to other men.Its that simple.lol
You are basically in a useless profession that does not contribute anything good to society. You don’t use your brain to make money, you use your body. You took the easy way out. Your profession contributes to the horrible trend of treating women as commodities. Strippers, exotic dancers, whatever, are not respected by society, and if you want to be one, you will have to learn to accept those viewpoints, whether you feel they are right or wrong. Most decent guys will reject you once they find out you’re a stripper. Even though some may enjoy going to those kind of shows, they sure as hell don’t want to be seriously involved with any of the women that are jiggling around for every paying customer’s entertainment. If you want to find a good man, you might want to rethink your profession. Best of luck to you.
And no, I am not jealous because I’m too fat to be a stripper. What a pathetic argument that is.
I will be completely honest with you…. if that is truely where you want to work for a while then you are gonna have a time finding a guy to be supportive. In my own case I have never dated a stripper. I trained a few of them when I was personal trainer but they were very ditached. It seemed that they spent so much of their time separating their feelings from their bodies that it seemed to be way of life. In my own oppinion I don’t hate strippers but I could never date one. I am a pretty secure guy but even I couldn’t deal with my girl taking off her clothes for another man. Its hard enough to deal with day to day preasures of a relationship without adding that variable. When I think of those dancers I trained I can see they were very attractive women and a man would be blessed to have one by his side. As far as the profession It would have to be an understanding up front that its what you do and its only a job. You should just make whoever you want to be with the center of your world you have to reinforce it to them everyday. That he is yours and when you leave the club your comming home alone to him.